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Weknowabreakuphurts.Butthefactthatyou'reheretodaymeansyouchosetomoveforward.OverItwascreatedtohelpyougetoveryourexinahealthyway,findyourpeaceagain,andturnthepageonceandforall.Thiscouldbethestartofanewchapter.
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LauraDay 34/90
This morning, for the first time, I didn't miss them. It still hurts, but this gave me some peace.
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MartinDay 12/90
It's so hard not to text them. I tell myself it's not good for me, but some days the nostalgia wins.
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ValentinaDay 21/90
I'm not sure I'm moving forward, but reading you reminds me I'm not alone in this.
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Quote of the day
“You can't get over what you won't face.”
Walter Riso
Science fact of the day
Your brain releases dopamine when you stalk an ex, just like when you eat sugar.
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Choose to care for yourselfbefore giving up
Remember why you ended it
- It wasn't healthy for me
- I need to be at peace
- I stepped away to take care of myself
Before you do anything, try this
Breathe for a minute
Read why going back won't help
That message can hurt more than it heals. Protect your progress.
Restart my process (Day 1)
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Today, 3,284 people feel the same. We're in this together.
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Articles & Tips
Science and insight to help you heal
Article3 min
Why your brain begs you to stalk them
The science behind that urge to check their profile.
Reading
Tip1 min
The 20-minute trick
What to do when the urge to text hits you.
Article4 min
What no one tells you about month one
How it really feels and why it's normal.
Tip2 min
Tidy your feed, tidy your head
Small changes that lower the anxiety.
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Data, articles and tips to understand yourself and keep growing.
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Each character is with you at a different moment of the process. Tap them and get to know them.
Ninety
The heart that keeps going, no matter what
The stubborn heart that keeps beating even when it all hurts. It walks beside you to remind you that healing isn't a one-day thing, but it's not impossible either.
Milo
Your clear mind in the middle of chaos
The brain that brings you back down to earth when your mind wanders off. Milo calms the storm and says: easy, let's think before we spiral.
Patch
The little hero of your setbacks
Shows up right when you feel something broke, to tell you it's okay to let go. After every fall, you can start again.
Basti
Your shield when everything hurts
The shield that stands firm against the pain. It doesn't hide what you feel, it helps you gather strength to keep going. A broken heart deserves a defender too.
Revi
The ex that only lives in your head
That ghost that sneaks into your thoughts and brings back memories that no longer add up. With Over It, you make it a little smaller every day.
Sparky
The spark that lights you back up
The spark that stays alive even when everything seems off. It reminds you there's still fire inside you to begin again.
Your path
Healing is a path. You walk it at your own pace.
Feel
Trust
Reflect
Let go
Heal
Give yourself permission to feel it all, no rush and no guilt.
Little by little, you trust yourself and what's coming again.
You understand what happened and what you learned, without punishing yourself.
You release what no longer adds up to make room for the new.
You come back to yourself, more whole and lighter at heart.
Reviews
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Real, anonymous reviews from the Over It community.
Sofía
Day 28
I thought I'd never get out. Today I laughed without him crossing my mind. Thank you Ninety.
Mateo
Day 45
The panic button stopped me from texting them so many times. It literally saved me.
Camila
Day 12
Knowing you're not alone at 3am is priceless.
Tomás
Day 60
The daily challenges gave me a routine when everything was chaos.
Sofía
Day 28
I thought I'd never get out. Today I laughed without him crossing my mind. Thank you Ninety.
Mateo
Day 45
The panic button stopped me from texting them so many times. It literally saved me.
Camila
Day 12
Knowing you're not alone at 3am is priceless.
Tomás
Day 60
The daily challenges gave me a routine when everything was chaos.
Lucía
Day 33
I cried, let go and came back to myself. The app was with me at every stage.
Joaquín
Day 21
Talking to Ninety unlocked things I couldn't say out loud.
Valen
Day 50
The anonymous community made me feel understood without explaining a thing.
Benja
Day 38
The breathing exercises lowered my anxiety and I finally slept well.
Lucía
Day 33
I cried, let go and came back to myself. The app was with me at every stage.
Joaquín
Day 21
Talking to Ninety unlocked things I couldn't say out loud.
Valen
Day 50
The anonymous community made me feel understood without explaining a thing.
Benja
Day 38
The breathing exercises lowered my anxiety and I finally slept well.
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